Well, Actually...from Erin Clarke of Well Plated

Well, Actually...from Erin Clarke of Well Plated

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I'm Not that Peace Corps

That time I slept on hut floors in Northern Thailand, Ben's surprising 40th birthday destination ideas, and being OK admitting who I am (and who I'm not).

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Ben turns 40 this fall and instead of a party, he wants to take an international trip to commemorate the milestone. It turns out we had very different interpretations of “trip.”

Baby Ben hiking in Thailand 10 years ago. He’s hardly aged a day, folks!

Planner that I am, I immediately switched into research mode.

From prior conversations, I knew he was excited about France (or so I thought). I speak good French, so getting around is easy—also, the food—or Italy (THE FOOD!).

Plus, both France and Italy hold special memories for us.

Pitstop in Gordes, Provence. We spent six weeks road tripping through France the summer Ben graduated from law school in 2014.

En route to Vegas for a friend’s 40th birthday celebration (we are in the “40th birthday” chapter of our lives), I started putting together what I thought was the perfect itinerary: 10 days on the France/Italy border.

We’d start the day with a gorgeous Alpine hike, then end it with pizza, pasta, and wine.

I was pretty proud of the itinerary, and when I turned to Ben to share my genius, I was surprised to see him scrolling articles about Bhutan, a country sandwiched between India and Tibet, and Armenia, a country that borders Iran, Georgia, and Azerbaijan.

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